We've all heard jokes about people having to wear Depends who suffer from bladder incontinence. Well, there are other options to Depends available that may even cure the cause of incontinence. There are pelvic muscle exercises called Kegel exercises. There's biofeedback, medications to relax the bladder or tighten the sphincter muscle, bladder retraining, vaginal estrogen tablets, devices that support the bladder and, as a last resort, surgery.
Talk to your Doctor about exploring these options.